002 ☄ video

[nohometown]

Because of the taboos surrounding anal sex, I find there is much people don't know about it, not to mention a great deal of misinformation on the subject. I thought I would offer some advice so that anyone engaging in the process will have a more enjoyable experience.

Adequate preparation is essential. Be sure to stimulate the anus beforehand, through rimming or gentle fingering or other contact. Making the sphincters relax will greatly reduce any discomfort you might feel. Relaxation in general is key. Take deep breaths, and take your time. Lubricant is also extremely important for reducing friction and making penetration easier. Your lubricant should be water or silicone based when using a latex condom. I personally recommend silicone based.

As for the sex itself, positions where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest: kneeling, lying on your back or on your side, will lead to more comfortable sex, or will be a good position to start from. This position will straighten out the anal canal and the pubo-rectal sling will draw back to allow smoother entry.

Whether your partner is male or female, massage or otherwise stimulate their genitals during intercourse. After you've achieved mutual orgasm, when exiting your partner's anal canal, allow your partner's orgasm to terminate and their rectum to relax before withdrawing.

A healthy rectum will contain fecal matter only when the bowel is full, so in fact, there is little need for anal douching. If you do feel the need to do so, only use plain, clean water at room temperature. Bear in mind, however, that douching can irritate the anal lining, even if one only uses water. Using another liquid will make the risk of irritation greater.

These are just some basic points. If you have any further questions, please ask, and I'll do my best to answer them.

[Just what everyone needs: a giant man dressed all in leather giving anal sex advice.]

Comments

[ronderotarel]

[He is very impressed. He thinks you're a great teacher.] Where can I find the lubricant?

[nohometown]

I haven't purchased any here yet, but in my experience, lubricant is readily available. There are specialty shops dealing in sexual merchandise, but one may also purchase it where medical supplies are sold.

[ronderotarel]

[And now he kind of wants your number too. There's a flutter of eyelashes.] You're a very good teacher. I want to try anal sex again. Last time was terrible.

[nohometown]

[He retains his perfectly polite, sex ed teacher manner.]

Lack of preparation and knowledge, or an inconsiderate partner, can lead to a negative experience.

Sexual contact should be between consenting adults.

[Maybe this person is an adult who somehow looks younger; it's hard to tell here, but in any case, he wants to make that point clear.]

[valentineluke]

Can't decide whether to laugh at or ask for phone number.

First curse?

[nohometown]

Curse? I have heard of the curses here, but I'm not sure what you're referring to in this case.

[Every time is a good time for sensible sex advice, right? Except... he ordinarily wouldn't think so.]

[valentineluke]

Nevermind.

What do you think of the City?

[nohometown]

Do you mean to say that I'm under the effect of a curse? [He isn't one to give up on a topic easily. He doesn't like to think he can be easily influenced, but now that he thinks of it, he isn't quite sure why he felt compelled to give his (assuredly excellent) advice. He looks thoughtful for a moment.] Yes, I see.

I don't appreciate having been brought here against my will. As that's the case, I see the City as prison, but it is a prison with its interesting points.

[totallyinaband]

That's very... thorough.

[nohometown]

Thank you. [Sephiroth is quite skilled in making reports.]

I decided to cover all the salient points, so that those who might not be willing to ask further questions would be aware of the most necessary information.

[totallyinaband]

Oh all the sex talk posts today, I think that one was actually the least terrifying.

[Congrats, man!]

[nohometown]

I'm pleased to hear it.

An air of shame and secrecy surrounding sexuality in any form can only lead to harm, in my opinion.

1/3

[shall_yield_us]

[shall_yield_us]

[shall_yield_us]

...Commander?

[nohometown]

Yes, Rosiel?

[There's nothing unusual about his report, surely.]

[deadliest6]

Informative.

[nohometown]

Thank you. I'm pleased you think so. I've run across many misconceptions on the subject.

[deadliest6]

These misconceptions are common?

[hatesthefood]

Way too much info!

[nohometown]

It was a rather modest survey of the subject. I prefaced it with a clear introduction so that anyone who would rather not hear about it could stop listening.

[hatesthefood]

It was like a car accident. I couldn't look away.

[ironmanic]

If there's an award for writing the unsexiest description of sex, you've just won it.

[nohometown]

I'm glad to hear it. My intent wasn't to stimulate, but to educate.

[ironmanic]

This City really does have everything. Even experts on anal.