002 ☄ video

[nohometown]

Because of the taboos surrounding anal sex, I find there is much people don't know about it, not to mention a great deal of misinformation on the subject. I thought I would offer some advice so that anyone engaging in the process will have a more enjoyable experience.

Adequate preparation is essential. Be sure to stimulate the anus beforehand, through rimming or gentle fingering or other contact. Making the sphincters relax will greatly reduce any discomfort you might feel. Relaxation in general is key. Take deep breaths, and take your time. Lubricant is also extremely important for reducing friction and making penetration easier. Your lubricant should be water or silicone based when using a latex condom. I personally recommend silicone based.

As for the sex itself, positions where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest: kneeling, lying on your back or on your side, will lead to more comfortable sex, or will be a good position to start from. This position will straighten out the anal canal and the pubo-rectal sling will draw back to allow smoother entry.

Whether your partner is male or female, massage or otherwise stimulate their genitals during intercourse. After you've achieved mutual orgasm, when exiting your partner's anal canal, allow your partner's orgasm to terminate and their rectum to relax before withdrawing.

A healthy rectum will contain fecal matter only when the bowel is full, so in fact, there is little need for anal douching. If you do feel the need to do so, only use plain, clean water at room temperature. Bear in mind, however, that douching can irritate the anal lining, even if one only uses water. Using another liquid will make the risk of irritation greater.

These are just some basic points. If you have any further questions, please ask, and I'll do my best to answer them.

[Just what everyone needs: a giant man dressed all in leather giving anal sex advice.]

Comments

[shall_yield_us]

Until a thin-nigh-invisible-yet-there line is crossed.

[nohometown]

You don't know my world very well. [He could get away with a lot more than he does. He's the golden boy--or silver one, to be precise.] Not at all.

What I do here has no bearing on my standing there, in any case.

[shall_yield_us]

Then trust my word, Commander, hmmmm?

[nohometown]

I am not inclined to trust the word of one who claims to lie regularly, not without further cause.

I have been in the army for more than a decade, and I'm aware of how my society functions.

[shall_yield_us]

Well, then. As you say. Your social funeral rites are yours to arrange for.

[nohometown]

As I say, yes. [His own view of sex is rather clinical, due to his upbringing, and he's confident that he's right (as usual).]

Everyone here is no doubt used to posts on a wide range of topics, made for various reasons, and everyone at home is--at home.

[He certainly wouldn't make such an announcement at home, but he is beginning not to care what ShinRa thinks.]

So I thank you for your concern, but there's no need.

[shall_yield_us]

I'd have thought a man of arms more of a puritan. And yet.

[nohometown]

Then perhaps you haven't spent a great deal of time around soldiers.

[The thought of the army being full of chaste soldiers is so inaccurate as to be amusing.

Although he is somewhat less interested in such things than others he knows, that doesn't mean he's not interested at all.]

Men of arms are generally no different than other men in that regard.

[shall_yield_us]

I'd have thought discretion would take precedence to honesty in the name of military discipline.

[nohometown]

You seem to be under the impression that I am acting as a general here, or that I have some interest in behaving as if I am still with my army.

[Part of him is glad, so glad, to be free of all of it.]

Your impression is mistaken. I'm a general in my world, but this is not my world. I'm independent, a free agent.

[shall_yield_us]

Tsk, tsk. No such thing as freedom, Commander. Only loose binds.

[nohometown]

No, I am not free of this city or its "gods", but I am temporarily freed from my duties and my obligations to ShinRa's military.

So why should I allow them to define my behavior?