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[nohometown]

Because of the taboos surrounding anal sex, I find there is much people don't know about it, not to mention a great deal of misinformation on the subject. I thought I would offer some advice so that anyone engaging in the process will have a more enjoyable experience.

Adequate preparation is essential. Be sure to stimulate the anus beforehand, through rimming or gentle fingering or other contact. Making the sphincters relax will greatly reduce any discomfort you might feel. Relaxation in general is key. Take deep breaths, and take your time. Lubricant is also extremely important for reducing friction and making penetration easier. Your lubricant should be water or silicone based when using a latex condom. I personally recommend silicone based.

As for the sex itself, positions where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest: kneeling, lying on your back or on your side, will lead to more comfortable sex, or will be a good position to start from. This position will straighten out the anal canal and the pubo-rectal sling will draw back to allow smoother entry.

Whether your partner is male or female, massage or otherwise stimulate their genitals during intercourse. After you've achieved mutual orgasm, when exiting your partner's anal canal, allow your partner's orgasm to terminate and their rectum to relax before withdrawing.

A healthy rectum will contain fecal matter only when the bowel is full, so in fact, there is little need for anal douching. If you do feel the need to do so, only use plain, clean water at room temperature. Bear in mind, however, that douching can irritate the anal lining, even if one only uses water. Using another liquid will make the risk of irritation greater.

These are just some basic points. If you have any further questions, please ask, and I'll do my best to answer them.

[Just what everyone needs: a giant man dressed all in leather giving anal sex advice.]

Comments

[valentineluke]

Nevermind.

What do you think of the City?

[nohometown]

Do you mean to say that I'm under the effect of a curse? [He isn't one to give up on a topic easily. He doesn't like to think he can be easily influenced, but now that he thinks of it, he isn't quite sure why he felt compelled to give his (assuredly excellent) advice. He looks thoughtful for a moment.] Yes, I see.

I don't appreciate having been brought here against my will. As that's the case, I see the City as prison, but it is a prison with its interesting points.

[valentineluke]

You may want a drink or two after midnight. May even feel compelled to issue a public apology - it's best you fight that urge. Far too many already give in to it.

Others have referred to the City as such.

[nohometown]

A public apology? I may have been compelled to do this, but I stand by my advice. It's all sound, and adults may discuss sex openly, if they wish. [He doesn't like to think of what actual apology-worthy offenses he might commit if acting against his will.]

Alcohol has no effect on me.

And what is your impression of the City?

[valentineluke]

Pity. I would have offered to buy around.

A world of numerous opportunities.

[nohometown]

Then I thank you for the thought.

Is that so? What opportunities have you found here thus far?

[valentineluke]

Believe it or not, freedom. My nemeses aren't here and I don't have to hide what I am.

[nohometown]

I can see why you'd enjoy it here, then.

[A pause. He considers his own relative lack of freedom at home.]

Freedom in prison is perhaps not such a contradiction as it might seem at first.

What is it that you are?

[valentineluke]

Vampiric humanoid. In my world, it's best to blend in or risk rousing unwanted attention from hunters and other annoying pests.

[nohometown]

I have no experience with vampiric humanoids, but I'm familiar with the concept. I don't blame you for preferring the freedom from being hunted. I'm glad someone finds their displacement beneficial.

You've had no such problems since arriving?

[valentineluke]

For the most part, no.

Saw your earlier post. How long have you been in the military?

[nohometown]

I'm pleased to hear it.

I've been in SOLDIER for approximately ten years now.

[valentineluke]

Seen war or has it all been active duty?

[nohometown]

I began my military career in the midst of a war, and I was the commanding general of the armed forces by the time it ended.

[valentineluke]

Impressive.

No military here, what will you do?

[nohometown]

I'm not overly concerned with the lack of a military. [Lately, he hasn't been pleased with his own superiors, and he's not looking to replace them or start his own military. When he's thinking of leaving the army back home, there would be little point.]

There's a company here I may decide to seek employment with. I've also started working as a freelance security consultant.

[He likes to keep himself busy.]

[valentineluke]

Good to hear. Most newcomers tend not to do anything until the end of their first month.

[nohometown]

I don't enjoy being idle. [Quite an understatement from a genetically engineered workaholic.]

How is it that you spend your time here?

[valentineluke]

I own business, do investments.

[Leaves out his other activities: murder, etc.,]

[nohometown]

What manner of businesses do you run?

[valentineluke]

Hotel and a circus.

[nohometown]

Interesting. I imagine those must both take a great deal of work to operate.

What type of circus?