Look. [OKAY, she needs to get them drinks for this. Which she proceeds to do! Gin and tonics, enjoy. Just wait for a second while she's making them, because hah - classy.] I'm sure almost everyone's ended up lumped with the brutish, mean, dick of a person whose personality we justify by saying hey at least he helps us get this and this done, or something. Very utilitarian, sure.

But - [Hands him a glass.] Most dickish people have the ability to change, or to act less dickish if they really give a damn about you.