Yeah, I'm pretty sure the meaning's the same even if the term isn't. Usually refers to an older guy and a younger woman, but I'm willing to bet you and I are just about the same age.

[This is a perplexing offer. And yet, a tempting one. He's not sure, however, that it's entirely wise, and so decides to proceed with caution.]

There're other options, you know. Especially in a City like this one.